Dan’s mom

Posted on August 6, 2014 by Kris| 7 Comments

Well it seems Dan cannot get a break,,,,,,,he finally gets me back to some form a normal after all my problems last week, and then on Saturday we get a call from Dans mothers neighbor saying that she was brought to the hospital. After calling the hospital we rush down there to find she is in bad shape….problems with colon, pancreatic, irregular heartbeat……but most of all in stage five kidney failure.
Dan was beside himself and so upset he was never called…….and what he was to find out later was even more upsetting. The home aid helping his mom, was taking furniture, her belongings, sold her car……real bad scenario……she took Dan off having any decisions for her health…..real mess and cannot go into detail…..he was so hurt, it kills me…..but being the wonderful son and person he is……..he has been by his mothers side and has arranged for her care in her remaining time on earth. He is so good to her…..even though she has not been so nice to him in the last couple months ….he keeps saying she is my mother. And she has apologized for all the bad she has done 5 times a day the past few days which I am thankful for……..but I know this whole chain of events has him hurt and he is sad inside……..I know that nothing I say is going to make him feel better……I am amazed at the man he is and the good son he is…..after being hurt so bad.
We are just waiting for her to peacefully go…he is taking her home ….having hospice come in so she can die at home….not in the hospitaL as she wished. It is sad but at least Dan is meeting and following thru with her wishes… She told him “I WANT TO FADE AWAY…..I A’M TIRED AND JUST WANT TO GO!” They say any time now but who knows?

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7 Responses to Dan’s mom

  1. Tammy Marcus | August 6, 2014 at 5:43 PM |

    Praying for you and Dan. Mostly for peace and strength

  2. Bonnie Finn | August 6, 2014 at 7:04 PM |

    So sorry!!!!

  3. Lorraine | August 6, 2014 at 7:19 PM |

    saying prayers for all of you

  4. Ellie | August 6, 2014 at 9:04 PM |

    I wish there was something I could do for the both of you and you know all you have to do is ask me….you both are in my thoughts and prayers….may she go peacefully in her sleep….love you guys so much!

  5. Anonymous | August 6, 2014 at 9:18 PM |

    I’m so sorry. Much Love to you and Dan. God Bless.

  6. Juliette Gorham | August 6, 2014 at 9:42 PM |

    Kris you and Dan are so loved. I can not even express in words right now what needs to be said. As an intuitive it comes from deep within my soul and touch. I can not be there so I am relying on spirit to send you both my love energy hope and healing. Namaste xx

  7. Mary Ehle | August 7, 2014 at 7:53 AM |

    Danny, My Heart aches for you and your family. I love your mom like a sister and will never be able to forget her and all the wonderful talks and visits we shared. She is a great lady and she loves you very much. I wish I could visit with her but time and age control those things to carry out God’s plan in our lives. Please give her a kiss and a hug from Craig and I and tell her we love her. She was such a big influence on my life and helped me with my business. Do you remember coming to Fort Plain and riding on the back of the truck out back? We had a great time. That was well over 30 years ago. Please keep me informed about her and I will pray for her and also for you as she again prepares for another journey that will give her eternal peace. I think that everything in heaven may get a new burst of color. Keep on doing the best you can. I am very proud of you and all you have accomplished in your life. Remember God has a plan for you and it is far better then we can ever imagine. Read Jeremiah 29:11. Remember we are all here “visiting ” for a short time on our journey home to spend eternity with our Lord. God bless you Dan and family.

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